Social Customs
How Jinjarans meet, greet, and give
At a Glance
- Values
- Egalitarianism, self-sufficiency, respect for age
- Status
- Earned by contribution to community, never by wealth
- The one taboo
- Turning your back on a meal, gift, or compliment
Core Philosophies
- Egalitarianism and Self-Sufficiency. Jinjaran society is highly egalitarian, treating all individuals equally regardless of race, gender, or sexuality. Great emphasis is placed on self-sufficiency, and it's considered polite to allow others to perform tasks for themselves, such as opening a door — intervening can imply that the other person is incapable.
- Respect for Age. Age is the one demographic that receives special recognition. Jinjarans often give a nod of respect to the elderly, acknowledging the wisdom and experience that comes with a long life.
- Community and Contribution. While individual self-sufficiency is valued, there is a strong sense of community interdependence. Social status is not determined by wealth, but by an individual's perceived contributions to their community.
Social Etiquette
- Greetings and Farewells. Greetings are simple and direct — "Well met" or "Safe travels." Eye contact is important as a sign of honesty. Farewells often involve well-wishes for a safe journey, like "May your path be clear."
- Personal Space. Contextual and dependent on familiarity. Close friends might be physically playful in public, but a respectful distance is maintained when meeting someone new. In crowded spaces allowances are made, but politeness is still expected.
- Hospitality. Offering food and shelter to travelers is a deeply ingrained value, stemming from Jinjara's history as a society of survivors. Guests are expected to be gracious and respectful of their host's customs.
Important Customs
- The Open Hand. It is a profound insult to physically turn your back on a meal, gift, or even a compliment. To acknowledge someone else while receiving a gift or compliment, a Jinjaran extends an open hand toward the original giver, showing that their attention and gratitude remain with them. At social gatherings, a person engaging with a group may extend both hands out to recognize everyone.
- Inter-House Courtesy. Jinjarans are expected to be respectful and adaptable when traveling to different House regions — including graciously accepting local foods and customs that differ from their own.